"Do not associate with a man given to anger; or go with a hot-tempered man," Proverbs 22:24 (NASB)
Too often we allow ourselves or others to experience continued abuse because of what we believe the Bible says. Yes, the Bible says to live at peace with everyone (Romans 12:18), to treat others as you wish to be treated (Luke 6:31), to be kind, compassionate, and forgiving (Ephesians 4:32), and to humbly value others above yourselves (Philippians 1:3). The Bible also says, "He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip." Proverbs 20:19 (NASB)
Loving people doesn't mean allowing abuse, embracing bad behavior, or compromising values.
"But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he should be an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler--not even to eat with such a one. For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Do you not judge those who are inside the church? But those who are outside, God judges. Remove the wicked man from among yourselves." 1 Corinthians 5:11-13 (NASB)
When a person claiming Christianity persists in immorality, selfishness, hostility, substance abuse*, gossip, or dishonesty, disassociate yourself for the sake of your reputation and possibly your safety.
Do we forgive people who abuse? Absolutely. Do we still care about them? Definitely! Do we maintain close relationships with such people? No. How could we? If we are on a path that takes us ever closer to Christ, and those people are walking away from Him, we obviously won't be traveling together.
*Professional help is readily available for people with addictions.
Celebrate Recovery
National Drug Helpline 1-888-633-3239
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